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When our myths, dreams, and ideals are shattered, our world topples.
Kathleen Casey Thiesen
The act of "becoming" topples our world, and rightly so. We outgrow yesterday's ideals, and we have begun realizing, in our unfolding, the dreams of last year. Now new dreams call us. Recovery has toppled our world. Hallelujah!
In our abstinence, each day offers us fresh opportunities to "create" new realities to replace the outworn, outgrown myths of the using days. But letting go of the old takes patience, persistence, and strength. The old comforted us when there was little else.
Perhaps we need reminding that were it not for the shattered myths of last year or last week, we'd not be progressing, unfolding, as the bigger picture calls us. We have a part to play in this life, as do our sisters, our friends, our children. New dreams and ideals will lead us on our way. Old dreams served us yesterday, and the past is gone. They can't direct our present.
I will look with excitement at my toppling world. It signifies growth - intellectual, emotional and spiritual. Old ideals will bind me. I will dare to dream new dreams and go where they lead with confidence.
I have lived on dreams and ideals- principles, even...
and it has been a really rocky road. Sometimes the tops of the rocks seemed to be broken glass...
I was one of those who would say: "Never say die!" Try, try, try.... ...
letting go- was helpful... and choosing a safer trail... ...
WOW!!! David, I can sure relate to your post....thank you for sharing.....try try try....letting go was the hardest thing for me, but I am learning......choosing a safer trail...taking the path of least resistance...oh yea....
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ROSIE, a work in progress!!!
Keep it simple__Easy does it__Keeping the focus on me--AND___"Forgiveness doesn't excuse bad behavior, but does prevent bad behavior from destroying your heart" ~ Unknown