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Post Info TOPIC: Separation process - "greater family".

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Separation process - "greater family".

I met this female in 2015 before going to the USA whom were practicing some yoga or something like that. A friend/someone that knew the guys I, although these were out travelling, were living with at the time. This female was separated from her parents here in Gentofte (the same place that I now live, in a like replicated situation) - them beginning to "blackmail" her to do things and her leaving her apartment?
I recognize much of the same. Its not okay.  
I feel like something is doing the same to me that is done to cows. How can I fight back and destroy this?

One thing is ACA however what happens is way beyond what ACA-work normally relates to. Its scary.

I know the timing.... Thats the most scary part; the discrediting of what I say. I am serious, its not a joke or rationalization on my parents. They are not that bad ||| , nowhere near, even if resented (by the cows that they ingest milk from ...) ||| - discrediting part. 
Greater family issues affecting closer family (mother, father, sister, brother) - whom I have quite "successfully" been separated pretty much entirely from.

A process I observed a female of about the same age go through right before I left for the USA being replicated on me. 
Separating from family -> eastern spirituality. 

I doubt this the cows being milked; I do not know though, some source of hatred/resentment or a method applied in a different way. Possibly an attempt at generating relateability; furthering the damage causing whatever suffered even more, causing others to suffer even more and the same hate whatever it is feels being directed at what does this. 

-- Edited by ieei on Sunday 11th of February 2018 12:20:37 PM

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